Overcoming Weaknesses with Personology, Part II.
What are the elements that weaken our personality?
This post is an attempt to combine all research I learned during a certain time period let’s say few months and sharing them in a comprehensive conclusive matter. (My conclusions are marked with pink quote vertical line).
As previously written in my blog post, Gary Goldschneider discovered our personality is not so much influenced by the celestial elements which is what astrology is about, we know it has been corrupted and used as means of controlling people’s lives, calling it a “destiny” in order to self-sabotage as described in detail in my post Origin of Astrology.
But during his life, Gary discovered that it is more likely the natural rhythms and cycles of nature and human’s developmental stages that influence our personality by just a month and day of birth. We see over and over again the common personality traits that repeat themselves every time you compare the descriptions written by Gary and with what new people say when they find out it is describing them and it is accurate anywhere between 80-95 % and sometimes 99%. But it is not only the personality traits but also the relationships traits that Gary’s described in his Secret Language of Relationship book where he combined 48 personality traits with each of the 48. As you can imagine over thousand of possibilities that accurately describe the character of the relationship, as we find over and over again if we are honestly looking for objectivity.
Personology unveils the kind of qualities in connection with what is typical for that time of the year, let’s call it a template that generates the type of personality we connect with our environment.
As I discovered from studying the Near Death Experiences, and specifically Bruce Greyson’s research, we know now, as many psychiatrists confirm, that the brain and our mind relationship is very close but the mind can exist outside of the brain. Nevertheless, as we are a combination of physical and non-physical, our mind is manifested by the brain in this physical world based on my understanding.
If we consider the concept such as we are made out of Mind, Spirit and Body, we need to make sure to take care of all three to make sure we do not have a weak mind that is manifested in our body.
As it seems, our personality as confusingly defined in Britannica is the combination of characteristics we relate to others and are unique and clearly distinguishable. But it was Gary who discovered similarities based on the time of birth beyond any known astrological definitions. Despite of being surprisingly accurate and helpful in psychological counseling field for its amount of detail of 366 descriptions, it is considered pseudo-science by this world’s (some group) standards, which does not mean it is not real or true.
So what are the elements that can influence our personality?
It would be the limitations of our physical brain like damage or the quality of input since it is the processor the filter the director of what and how we intake, process and store our data made out of thoughts and emotions. It would seem that our mind produces our personality which is projected onto our behavior and relationships.
And of course, we are not an island so our development is influenced by our upbringing and the type of environment we are exposed to.
Also, the quality of thoughts and emotions can influence not only our mind but also the body. As scientific study shows stressful emotions alter white blood cell function. Stress diminishes white blood cell response to viral infected cells and to cancer cells. (https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/18589562/)
I discovered a great presentation by Dr. Alphonzo Monzo, ND. Where he explains the different levels or systems we have. He invented a method called Aleph-Tav body coherent restore that uses 1. Touch, 2. Light Frequency, 3. Sound Frequency, 4. Prayer and body commands. He says our body is a temple and it works based on all God’s Laws such as Universal Legal law, Laws of Physics and Mathematics. The way we choose to live affects our body.
So bottom line based on my understanding is that the type of quality of thoughts you make, the type of quality of energy you produce and that directly affects your body and life.
Due to extensive research to the problem of evil, I have to conclude my view is exactly the same of many other christtians.
If we separate the spiritual from the physical we never get the full picture of who we are and where we are.
7/28/24
The reason I say that, it’s because it is important to realize that broken people cannot have full understanding of themselves and the world around them and cannot have full compassion, empathy for anyone either. Broken people are the ones with emotional weaknesses due to our upbringing. Either from our immediate family environment or later on socialized external environment. The more we integrate and mature the more we start to recognize the world is less then ideal and we have choices how we react to it. A broken person is weakened and the god-given personality is hidden and is manifested in the worst state possible. Our god-given template is in perfect harmony with the cycles of nature as we are undeniably part of it ourselves. Broken people can be a weapon for evil as much as good people can help others in healing. Evil is so intertwined with emotional and spiritual weaknesses that history shows a man will never achieve utopia on earth alone. There are not enough islands to live on and it is hard to survive alone if we do find that island. The technology dehumanize us in a way that makes us think we are only physical beings. Isn’t it a perfect strategy for war and ultimate control? To separate the physical aspects of a human from the aspects a human has with its powers from nature, the universe, divine consciousness as the “New Agers” say or God the highest creator as Christians say? By reconnecting to the divine family to the grand circle of life as Gary Goldschneider wrote in his Secret Language of Birthdays book, we can heal the broken emotional wounds and we can physically manifest it within our mini circles of life and lead a more fulfilling life knowing we all compliment one another in a perfect harmony but a man needs to be humble enough to recognize the evil from good. If we only recognize the creation without the creator, history shows a man just becomes an egotist, narcissist, and worse a psychopath when is broken. This is why Christians have a much more integrated view of the world, because they recognize a higher power but not only that, recognize that there is a spiritual war that directly affects every man on earth. There are evil forces hating humans as well which explains much of the evil. We can live in our own utopia but it will not solve all worlds problems only our immediate circle. From the history of the world we see all advanced civilization got corrupted and fell from its glory even the ones before the flood and especially after the flood, (the global flood event recorded in over 200 different cultures of the world.). We know that they fell from its glory due to disconnecting from the main source of life. A man will not be a better person with technology, because that is only the physical manifestation of human’s creation, what makes him a human, is also all the good personality traits and emotions and intellect that is not controlled by emotions but works in harmony with emotions. So far, only people that died and came back to living due to the technology today or spiritual forces say they saw what they think was heaven and they did not want to come back to earth. Do we really think we as humans are capable of heaven on earth without a divine intervention? Would it not take millions of years and lives for every human on earth to come to some enlightenment? Those ideologies are made to lead us to the path of no solution. Hence Christianity is still the number one religion (in a sense of one’s belief system not necessarily organized religion) and from historical evidence we see how the event of Jesus Christ, his life, his death, his resurrection has forever changed the world. In Jesus chronos became kairos. Those events affected history in so much that even the events of history were divided into before Christ (BC) and after Christ (AD). This is why we cannot remove spiritual from physical. It is up to how we use our personality, for the good or for the bad. Just as with all the knowledge in the world, at the end of each day is it used for good of all, and I mean all living (healthy, happy without pain, suffering, and death ? or is it used for good of one group of people? Think about it while you still can;-)
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What we see today clearly is that majority of mainstream public groups are promoting the same, such as: Obedience to the authorities. Then in contrast, we see much of anarchistic tendencies and secretive groups agenda (with their worship of self and power, cult of knowledge like Hermeticism and especially Sorcery or anything that can be used for control and discrediting the real Creator) we see too many confusing messages, too much of division and push for the new technology as if it was the modern messiah.
Our environment including the community and culture we grew up in and we live in influences our behavior and our personality without much of our choices and it can affect us even more if we are unaware of it. With some honesty and reflection we can overcome even those weaknesses we succumb to due to not having healthy self-love, and healthy boundaries. However we can start to recognize at least few external elements of influence. Our parents and our culture.
The most fascinating psychological element in my opinion is our learned attachment. Also the effects of negative emotions of fear, guilt and shame that most negatively influence our psychological state. Next, we can add more weaknesses that may be dominating in our character and may be amplified by our upbringing and culture such as pride, envy, lust and so on.
Here is an interesting overview of sins that I found during my research) is an element fitting to a not-so new theory of attachment formation.
Here’s a great resource I found for this subject that best explains the dynamics of human relationships and why is it so hard to change it. The book is called The Human Magnet Syndrome by Ross Rosenberg who developed a more detailed theory about why did we learn to love others more then self or why we love self more then others.
However it is written by someone who believes in secular science as the only point of view which separates the spiritual and physical worlds and incorrectly so. At the end of this post you will find a video the shows you why.. I believe that the more are able to live without the physical dependencies, the more we are able to see the spiritual aspects of life. This is probably the only point that Buddhism got right. Not the
* reincarnation nor the infamous * karma as the Hindu believe. A reliable resource on this subject can be found also here, which is an ebook from Stephen Blake called Reincarnation Refuted: evidence, logic, and common sense.
( * Notes: See the resources under the words “reincarnation” and “karma” above. They will give you a reasonable evidence to debunk those beliefs as they are being pushed in many ways, shape and forms onto our western culture to confuse us even more. This information looks solid with a big list of additional resources for further research, the author is Ron Wilson who posted it on Reddit full of “karma points. :-) I found it thanks to doing some extensive research on the subject looking for more objective view and not tinted by new age beliefs because unfortunately many NDE websites or radio shows promote also people that are entering into demon danger zone and mix afterlife with karma and other eastern religious believes of which origins are important to know first before agreeing blindly and conforming to the thinking of the majority which does not mean it is automatically true.)
The bottom line is sometimes our subconscious mind may deceive us because it is based on repetitious content, and our tribalistic behavior that helps us to survive better when we are in a group rather then when isolated. Our subconscious self-sabotage behavior is further influenced by our society and culture we are exposed to at the moment and further along into our adulthood. (Great resource on this subject I recommend is Jason Christoff, that discovered why would people self-sabotage unbeknownst to them and how our mind can protect us but also harm us if we give in to our “learned” behavior not necessarily good for us in the long run. Check out the videos when you click on the link under his name.) This is the part that one discovers when reaching bottom or desperation to the inability to get what one wants and needs. But once we realize it is only our own reactions and actions we can change which is proceeded by honesty, self-awareness and determination, the rest is about your own power of reasoning, logic, and intellect. The sense of self is incomparably different when we figure out something on our own. As you recall, all of us who fly on a commercial airplane as passengers, we cannot assist anyone else with a mask in case of a decrease of cabin pressure unless we wear the mask first ourselves.
The problem the Atheists have is that their theory of evolution and ignoring the spiritual world exposes them to live more comfortably in a confusing world which makes them vulnerable to the external attacks of predatory deceiving society. Because it is mainly our Creator who can give us the right manual that explains who we are and why we are here and why people are so inexplicably cruel to their own species just because they can and not because of necessity of survival. (The only way it can make sense as to why is there enmity among men is because of a spiritual warfare, more explained in the last video in this post, a testimony by Howard Pittman.)
There is a Canadian astrophysicist that makes sense out of Science and Bible not because of being religious but because he arrived to it after many years of research of astronomy, physics and many different kinds of religious text.
The astrophysicist is a well-known author Hugh Ross who wrote many fascinating books explaining his view on science and Bible and especially on the subject of UFO where he explains the important details that argue why we are spiritual beings in a physical body and that this planet was created exactly the way it should be in order to be suitable just for humans, how UFO proves that there must be other dimensions not livable planets and how our creator gave us the opportunity to redeem ourselves.
Here is the excerpt of the interview:
More on this subject of “Little Green Men”, Hugh Ross presents further details.
I would like to conclude with one testimony I found as one of the many near-death experiences that ultimately prove spiritual realm exist, and so does afterlife (no, I do not believe in the false doctrine of “Soul Sleep”) because all people of all cultures unite in similar experiences leading towards permanent transformation of self for the better.
Here is a testimony of a man that lived through the times when there was no electricity and the times when parents were loving but strict. This man went through a forever-changing life event that ultimately led him to overcome some of his weaknesses even though he thought he already lived a life of a decent, righteous and well-respected man in his community. (Note: First video of Howard Pittman is under the word “testimony” and at the end of this post.)
** A great resource I discovered on all things spiritual and paranormal from a dentist and a life-long researcher Martin Spiller who wrote his book and made it available free on the internet under his website called Structure of Heaven.
My Conclusion (updated 7/17//24)
In my opinion, unless you go through some life-transforming traumatic dramatic event in your life or you at least feel a bit stuck just like that character in “Groundhog Day” movie ; you will realize that it is very hard to change anybody else’s personality nor your own. On the other hand, it is very possible but not easy to change your behavioral reactions based on honesty and compassion, attitude toward gratitude and not entitlement, and appreciate the differences we have when functioning well as cogs in a wheel, complimenting one another in the grand cycle of life.
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